Coming Togther

One evening after begging D for his support we argued for the first time, this was scary as we had not argued before but finally we agreed that there was a problem, we needed to fix it and had to do it togther. Working togther we mananged to get the noise team witness enough for our neighbours equipment confiscated and then noise stopped.

Was it a conisdence that this problem started on the first day back from honeymoon, that it had only been resolved once we came togther or had it been a test, a test to bring us togther?

If that were a test then maybe our other problems were too, maybe D's Mum was not part of our wedding because she was not going to be part of our married life and this was something we had to deal with. In our new found closeness we began to talk, the extent of her neglect was revealed and I agreed to completely leave his contact with her up to him and not pressure him into seeing her as I had done throughout our engagment.

I stopped fearing that there was something not right with him for not wanting to see her, and that our future children would do the same to me. I also knew that it was up to me to give him all the love he needed and make sure he felt it everyday.